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I am a package and tins user when it comes to cooking, I admit it. One of the main reasons is that we're usually busy and/or not hungry at the same time (that would be me - I have days when I don't want to eat dinner), and so fresh food tends to go bad if I'm not careful. So, most of our veggies are frozen (very few veggies survive the commercial canning process well enough to be used in anything but soup), and a lot of our protein comes in cans. I also use lots of mixes, primarily because when I'm working gluten-free, it's easier to start with a mix and experiment.

Oh, okay. I like working from packages. I'm a heathen. But I make a mean pasta sauce from a bottled sauce base.

Which is all to say that yesterday I made one of my occasional trips to Whole Foods (known in our house as "Holy God, did you see those prices?!"), to stock up on some GF stuff I know they have, and to help me get back on the mostly GF diet that has served me well in the past, but fell badly by the wayside during the whole Lyrica fiasco (when those really gooey doughnuts and pastries became utterly irresistible, likewise pizza of all kinds, but especially cheese-stuffed crust). Their GF bread selection is pitiful, though, so I need to go to my local (and much better for the economy) Roots Market(Clarksville, MD - awesome, awesome local health food and organic store, but a bit more out of my way than the Silver Spring Whole Foods).

(Got enough parends there, Laura? Clearly not.)

(((((())))))))

Sorry, I can't help myself - I write like I talk. This is why, if there is a joke or a funny story to be told, I let Bob tell it, because I either forget or get wrong the salient parts, and add in way too many asides. Anyway, back to food.

Whole Foods had a lovely boneless lamb roast, and not madly expensive, so I got that, some red-skinned new potatoes, and some redcurrant jelly to make a nice dinner this Saturday while we're at the farm, since it's been months since we had some sort of special anniversary dinner, and we have a number of things to celebrate (why confine the festivities to just one anniversary, is my philosophy), and we're within a month or so of the SCA event where we both discovered we liked each other, so lamb with redcurrant jelly gravy it is.

I also got some really big artichokes - and this was actually the starting point of my rambling. I love artichokes; they're play food of the highest order, they're simple as blazes to cook (boil until the stem end is soft, and the bottom leaves pull away easily), and if you get good ones, they're really tasty (get firm, tightly closed globes; once they're loose and open, they're too fibrous to be good). I think the best ones I ever got in my life came from Ukrops, but the ones I got yesterday were pretty good, with meaty leaves, a nice taste, and a firm, large heart. When I was a kid, we'd get artichokes every now and then, and we dipped the leaves in melted butter - but Bob introduced me to Hollandaise sauce.

Oh, hollandaise - oh, oh, oh, you delicious, creamy angel, you. I can make hollandaise from scratch (I can also make cheese sauce, bearnaise, and a fabulous mayonnaise from scratch), but the eggs have to be really really fresh, so I admit it, I keep packages of hollandaise mix in the house. The best brand I've found is Knorr's, which includes wheat starch, so it's not the best, but my GF intolerance is actually pretty tolerant of small amounts of gluten, so I don't worry about a sauce I use maybe once every three months or so.

Hollandaise from a package isn't quite as good as the real thing, but as long as you ignore their "low-fat" suggestions, you can make it taste pretty awesome. I use a small can of evaporated milk, with just enough water added to bring it to one cup (very rich - do not drink this unless you like drinking half and half), and for God's sake, use real butter and not margarine, which will give you a very odd undertaste. This makes a very rich sauce, but as long as you're not eating it every day, it's really not a big deal.

Besides - artichokes have lots of fiber, so it all balances out.

Shhhh - don't wreck my fantasy.

Honestly, after going through more than a year of eating diet stuff from packages when I was on Jenny Craig (even though it was over ten years ago, I am still scarred by the memory of their three bean salad), I am of the opinion that if you won't give yourself the good stuff ever, you're much more likely to binge - the serotonin rush from the flavour of hollandaise (especially homemade, but even packaged if it's made properly) is an essential part of one's well-being.

I honestly think that people binge eat because they're seeking that natural high that really delicious well made food gives. This is why dreadful things like fat-free cupcakes (ugh, why bother?) are eaten by the package (and actually sometimes marketed as "you can eat the whole package!", even though a load more sugar is added to make up for the rubbery taste, and they're not any lower in calories - I'm telling you, those people are eeeeeeeeevil). One cupcake, two, or even the whole box/plate can't give a person the rush that just one really good properly baked and frosted cupcake produces, so people eat more and more, as their brains and bodies are subconsciously waiting for that feeling that never comes when you eat (alien, altered beyond recognition) cardboard food.

Couple this lack of joy with the pushed idea that you ARE NEVER ALLOWED TO EAT ANYTHING FATTENING AGAIN, EVER, (the premise of most "lifestyle changes" that are really just disguised low-fat diet plans) (no cupcakes for you!), and I think binges are inevitable. One could hardly expect anything else - the need to be satisfied is so much more complex than simply a full stomach. Refusing to acknowledge the complexity of appetite and reducing it to "eat our diet food!" keeps diet companies in business, but they're not in it to help us, they're in it to make themselves money (and they do make it, hand over fist). Consider this - if we all actually could successfully lose weight, they'd be out of business, and there's a lot of money to be made off fat people shamed and morally reviled by society. If people actually admitted how complex the weight question really was, they'd pitch those diet-mongers out on their ears, and start actually looking at the issue instead of fat-shaming.

If you restrict satisfaction and make it "forbidden" (i.e., morally reprehensible, incorporating the ridiculous idea that appetite control is magically linked to goodness), then when you "fall off the wagon" (or, more truthfully, when your brain and body can't take the abuse any more), you're guaranteed to binge, because the setup of diets is that this is the one time you'll get to eat everything you want. Dieting is put forward as never eating anything high-calorie ever again - especially now, with the aforementioned "lifestyle changes" being the big new thing in the diet industry - and the mechanics of bingeing are such that you won't even taste most of the food you eat. Food restriction, therefore, hits you from two directions at once; you deprive your brain of the serotonin that makes you happy, and you don't actually get real satisfaction from eating when you finally snap and can't take steamed broccoli and despair any longer, because you're stuffing the food in like it's going to be snatched out of your hands if you can't eat it all fast enough.

(This is actually a tactic suggested by fat-shamers. Take the food away from those greedy, greedy pigs! Shame them, humiliate them, tell them that if they were good people, they'd be thin by now! To be honest, when I was faced with that, I binged like there was no tomorrow.)

Seems counterproductive to me.

Even gluten free things need to be delicious to eat; I'll skip the things that don't give me palate satisfaction. "Eat to live" is not enough for me - I want food to be as much pleasure as anything else, since life is too short to eat bad food (and fuck you, Puritans and Victorians - you're responsible for a lot of social ills in this country, and you should be ashamed). In fact, the best diet advice I ever got was fom someone who is naturally very thin - never dieted in her life: Eat only what tastes wonderful to you, and stop as soon as you can't taste it fully any more. The mechanics of this are as such - most people accept a level of blandness in their food, because they think of food as something to stop you being hungry, and nothing more (in our fat-phobic culture, is anyone surprised by that?); indeed, if you dare admit that you love food, the self-appointed Food Police will try and make you feel that you're committing a terrible trangression against moral standards. Ironically, when you refuse to accept anything less than delicious, you'll not only be a lot more careful about what you eat, you'll actually stop eating sooner, because your serotonin will be triggered more quickly, and you'll feel fuller (and so much happier!).

This doesn't mean you are required to mainline Twinkies - that's the tactic of the food shamers, who claim (falsely) that practicing anything but a severely restricted diet will result in people eating like out of control vacuum cleaners (scare tactics to keep people on useless diets) - but if you don't say to yourself "I am never allowed to eat Twinkies, because they are just fat and sugar, and they are bad for me", you'll find yourself a lot more likely to eat one, instead of a box of six. Permission to eat creates a safe space for exploring your appetite - space that is not available in a diet obsessed society that actually puts a moral value on different foods (the sheer effrontery at people thinking they can police what other people eat makes me insane, and assigning a higher moral value to salad is such a stupid idea, I don't even know where to begin).  

Initially what happens with permission to eat is yes, people overeat. This happens for a very short time, and for a number of reasons, not least that people at first don't quite believe that they aren't going to have that right to eat anything taken away from them, so they'd better eat it all now (this is the binge mentality at work - and is a direct effect of the tactics of the diet industry). As they start to feel more confident that food won't be taken away, this urge relaxes, and normal patterned eating starts to happen. There's also the speed factor - as a nation, we eat too fast to actually tell when we're full, and because of that, we also have no idea of how much food we need to be satisfied.  This is not the same as keeping rigid portion sizes - everyone is different, and the one-size-fits-all nature of portion control plays right back into the idea of restricted eating, which we're trying to get away from.

Most people simply don't know the difference between full and satisfied - two very different things, that portion control and restricted eating refuse to acknowledge (and leads to bingeing, since the need to be satisfied is very strong, but the diet industry and its supporters have cast it as a Bad Guy, thereby setting dieters up to fail). Personally, I found that seeking satisfaction instead of fullness made a real difference in my eating habits, and it slowly changed my attitude to food*. I still struggle with body image, but I refuse to eat things that don't taste good just because someone has said they're "good for you!". In other words, I like spinach, but sometimes I want an artichoke with hollandaise dipping sauce, and making that perfectly normal desire into a moral failing is crazy. It's food, not a felony.

Or I could just be a shill for Fat Satan. Your choice.

Mmmmm, hollandaise. With butter.

Mmmmmm, butter.

*As always, YMMV (for instance, I do best with a fairly high amount of sugar in my diet, and I'm happiest when that sugar doesn't come from corn (cane sugar FTW), but my diet would be very bad for pre-and diabetic people). Bodies are remarkably individual in their needs, and what works for one person has no guarantee of working for someone else. As long as you're healthy, nothing else matters, including dress size, BMI, or weight.**

**Note: Starvation dieting is not healthy.***

***Nor is yo-yo dieting.

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my_stitching
May. 14th, 2009 12:45 pm (UTC)
Thank you for writing this. I couldn't agree more.
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platypus71
May. 14th, 2009 01:08 pm (UTC)
I am so glad I found you.
It's almost like a scene from a bad chick-flick without the beautiful costumes.

(On a wet street in a city, devoid of cars, light filtering through the mist, a theatre technician stands, alone.)

I was looking for Tudor costume inspiration and I found so much more. (music swells)

In all seriousness, I found your journal while looking for ideas for a period costume and I find it refreshing to hear someone else have a very down-to-earth and reasonable attitude towards eating (I won't say "diet" because of the negative connotations.) I have had a weight issue for most of my life, gaining and losing, not because of dieting but directly correlating to my activity level. In the past six months, going back to school for graphic design, I've gone from running shows to sitting on my butt in front of a computer screen and my weight has reflected that. So I know what I need to change, just being a busy woman, it's hard to make the time to work out when I've been used to having my workout be incorporated into my work.

I like food. I like eating. I could never just eat to live, I eat to enjoy. However, I have learned moderation and am learning healthier, tastier alternatives. Once in a blue moon, I want some potato chips. I've learned it's better to get the small bag from the vending machine and be done with it rather than deny myself and then find it in my cart at the grocery store. I totally agree with your cupcake example. I actually try to stay away from the low-fat, no-fat, sugar-free stuff because hidden in them is usually more sodium, more sugar, or more fat. Butter is awesome but I'm not going to eat a stick of it. Ugh.

So I know what I need to do to fit into a smaller corset, now if only there was a way to make hair grow faster...

Sorry to threadjack! You have a fan in Maryland.
vom_schwarzwald
May. 14th, 2009 01:21 pm (UTC)
artichoke
Have you ever wondered how someone figured out you can eat it if you steam it? I mean, not exactly the most attractive looking plant, right? Heck, at first glance they look down right vicious. So, just how hungry was someone to experment with it to see if it could be eaten?
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evil_fionn
May. 14th, 2009 01:18 pm (UTC)
Oh... so much I could comment on...
I've learned that making my food with more spices and heat satisfies me faster. Thai and Indian are two of my favorites right now. (Added benefit: Thai uses RICE noodles... at least my favorite resteraunt does, and I live across the street from an Asian market, so I'm very happy.)
My children who were once uber picky eaters(one daughter actually lived for a month on white grapes, bologna, and saltine crackers when she was three) LOVE spicy food at this point. So I make it a lot.
What I've learned:
If my body says "MEAT, NOW!" and I try to replace it with yoghurt... I will eat a lot of yoghurt. And end up eating the meat anyway, later.
If my body says "SWEET, NOW!" and I eat celery... I'll eat the celery, and later eat the ice cream/candy bar/cupcake.
I eat what I want, I eat it slowly, and it's all good.
Being GF makes it more difficult at times... but I've also found if I have to look for something that's "safe" to eat with Gluten intolerance, or make it... well, sometimes, it's too much damn work for 10 minutes worth of nomming.
Although... I am experimenting with a Gluten Free Amish Friendship Bread starter... :-) But that's WORTH the work!!
finocchio
May. 14th, 2009 01:41 pm (UTC)
anecdata
Trader Joe's makes these little six packs of full-fat yogurt. Each container is four ounces. I get more satisfaction from a four ounce container of that than I do from an 8 ounce lowfat dannon's. So there you go.

(And obvs. I couldn't agree with you more. Hail fat satan!)
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hugh_mannity
May. 14th, 2009 02:02 pm (UTC)
Suet pastry FTW! If I can't get suet, I use lard. I don't make pastry often, but when I do, it is GOOD.
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chargirlgenius
May. 14th, 2009 01:46 pm (UTC)
Yes. This is exactly why I have stopped dieting. So-called naturally thin people don't diet. They just eat differently.

(And I'm also in love with parentheses. Be proud! Don't deny yourself!)

:-D
lady_guenievre
May. 14th, 2009 01:48 pm (UTC)
There are *never* too many parenthetical statements (not even this completely gratuitous one).

Entirely agreed on the eating smaller portions of "real" food thing - if I could just manage to cook at home more, I'd be golden, even with my love for butter.
hugh_mannity
May. 14th, 2009 01:50 pm (UTC)
WORD!!!

My son makes killer cookies and brownies. I'm pre-diabetic. This is not as bad as it might sound because he'll make baby cookies for me (just a couple) and one of those or a 1" square of one of his brownies is more than enough to cover all the hedonistic aspects: mouth feel, taste, endorphin rush, et al.

Not only that, but he doesn't make them every day, so they are an occasional delight.

Since I stopped either going out and buying lunch, or eating microwaveable stuff, and started bringing in home cooked food for lunch, I find I don't get that mid-afternoon slump nearly so much.



albreda
May. 14th, 2009 10:38 pm (UTC)
Yup. You earn every single one of your 700+ readers with stuff like this! Woot!

Back when I was trying to bring my weight down from stupid meds (that much weight on my knees was brutal), I *made* myself eat one piece of something insanely decadent once a day, whether I could do without it or not, since that one piece of heaven (cream cheese brownie, or Reisen chocolate caramel) kept me on an even keel for the rest of the day. I was MUCH happier with my leafy greens, and even came to enjoy them, knowing that chocolately goodness was not off the table.

(Now I'm mainlining full cream at every turn, trying to keep my weight up while I'm nursing. And I'm going to the UK next month, where, as you know, they KNOW from CREAM! Gee shucks. ;)

BTW - in case you haven't discovered them yet, Bird's Eye Steam Fresh are *far and away* the yummiest steamed-from-frozen veg I've ever tasted. I wish they had more variety, but easy, not super pricey and THAT yummy = healthy happiness.
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isenglass
May. 14th, 2009 02:27 pm (UTC)
"Foodless food" is a great way to put it. After all, why eat something legally called "processed cheese food product". What is that exactly? Are we feeding the cheese with something now? Why would I want to eat something that isn't food, but only a food product and processed at that? *shudder*
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snailstichr
May. 14th, 2009 02:30 pm (UTC)
I lost 20 pounds last year (and have kept it off for a year) by replacing trips to the junk food machine with a cup of coffee with cream - no skim milk or powder crap! I have to use artificial sweetners, but the cream is so lush, I don't miss the trans-fat filled glop out of the machine. And, I can savor the coffee - if you close your eyes and inhale with every sip, it is almost like a little mini vacation. (Your fantasy mileage may vary...)
brickhousewench
May. 14th, 2009 03:03 pm (UTC)
I can only assume that you've read Geneen Roth. As this sounds so much like her sane, loving advice for how to care for your body.

Thank you. I needed to read this today.
tudorlady
May. 14th, 2009 03:06 pm (UTC)
Again, you've hit it out of the park, with the bases loaded.

My own experience with my weight has been complex, but something occurred to me the other day. If it were simply a matter of willpower, I could be any size I wanted. How do I know this? Becuase I was a nail-biter for many, many years. A compulsive, barely controlled nail biter. My parents tried all of the stuff they did to kids in the 60s for this habit, with zero results. Somewhere in my middle teens, though, I looked down at my hands and did not like what I saw.

So I stopped biting my nails.

It didn't happen at once, within a month, or even six months, and there were relapses. When my nails started growing out they were weak and misshapen. I left 'em alone and just thought about something else. (I also quit using polish. It never stopped me from biting and made them look even worse.)

After a time, that changed. I now have strong natural nails that not only look nice, but which can be used to loosen industrial sealants and the wrapping on CD cases well, let's say that I've used them as the emergency screwdriver on occasion. I'm lucky inasmuch as I'm one of those people that had decent nails to start with, although I never knew it. "All" it took was breaking a compulsive habit, which had resisted all attempts to be healed. I hurt myself, had bleeding fingertips, was embarrassed - but none of that was enough. I just MADE myself quit.

If that was what I had to do to be at what I consider an acceptable weight, I would have been there thirty-five years ago. I am SO SICK of the notion that overweight is simply about willpower/moral failing - because I have finally realized that I have proof that it isn't. Not for me. Not for a hell of a lot of others, too, I suspect.

xoxoxo to you as always.
chargirlgenius
May. 14th, 2009 03:18 pm (UTC)
I had a similar thing with nail biting. I just stopped. I didn't make a conscious effort, it just didn't really happen after I had kids. Don't know why. They still don't look perfect, as they catch on things or break occasionally, but they're no longer down to the quick.

Naturally, everything that we do and are is a result of the decisions that we make every day. However, the decisions we make about food and fitness are not totally made by us. As soon as I have a budget as big as that of the average marketing campaign, it will be fair again. As soon as companies are no longer permitted to makret to kids, it'll be a little more even of a choice. As soon as the standard for new housing developements is at least a little considerate of pedstrians, it'll be more fair.
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elizabethnmafia
May. 14th, 2009 03:24 pm (UTC)
I've found that I feel best when I'm eating primarily lean meats, whole grains, fruits, dairy, and vegis. I know I can't give up carbs (tried that...scared my husband on day 2) but I try to focus mainly on whole grains rather than processed breads and sugars. Learning to allow myself to have small amounts of the things I crave has been difficult but it's coming. Last night at the movies I only had a couple small handfuls of Coty's popcorn instead of getting my own. Considering what I really wanted was a giant tub all to myself I consider that a raging success. :) I won't give up soda though. A girl has to keep at least one vice. ;) But I do now primarily drink coke zero and I try to make sure I'm drinking all my water so I'm not only drinking soda.
thatpotteryguy
May. 14th, 2009 03:49 pm (UTC)
"steamed broccoli and despair "

I'm serving this for supper tonight.
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thatpotteryguy
May. 14th, 2009 03:52 pm (UTC)
This post was made of aweseome and win, with a whole bowl of awesomesauce for dipping. And with melted awesome dripping down your arm and off your elbow.

Anyway, I haven't been to Roots Market, although I've driven past it any number of times. FWIW, Common Market in Fredneck has LOTS of GF baking mixes, frozen goodies, and baked goods. In addition to virtually every flour-substitute imaginable, and a helpful, willing staff. I know it's quite a bit out of the way, but it might be worth the trip, and I'd be pleased to come with so you could get the member discount...
elfie_chan
May. 14th, 2009 04:15 pm (UTC)
THIS.

I was told once that, if I really needed to eat chocolate (which I do, for my emotional health and for the continued health of those around me), I should eat a small amount of high-quality dark chocolate. This would make me feel more satisfied than a cheap drugstore candy bar or the same amount of Whitman's chocolate or something, and, thus, I would eat less chocolate and still feel satisfied. It works! Good food (including butter!) is good for you. It's all about calorie balance, I think. And taste! People need taste to feel satisfied with food!

Now, I want an artichoke with hollandaise. I usually eat mine with blue cheese dressing (and that's about the only time I eat blue cheese dressing, as I prefer olive oil and balsamic vinegar on my salad), but hollandaise sounds utterly delicious.
elfie_chan
May. 14th, 2009 04:22 pm (UTC)
Also, I almost forgot--if you're ever in my town, we have a bakery called Sweet Life that does fabulous gluten-free desserts. I believe that some of them may be cupcakes.
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sorcha715
May. 14th, 2009 04:20 pm (UTC)
We love butter, but use Country Crock (margarine) alot. I sometimes make my cheese from a gallon of whole milk (sort of like cottage cheese). I enjoy Pepsi, hubby A&W Root Beer but we will drink Coke (I use Coke to clean my van battery cables). Did you know soda companies need to replace their vats every few years, as the acid in coke eats through the metal?

I do not eat much during the day; sandwich for lunch, dinner, and a bowl of cereal for a nite time snack. (I know this is bad, but I do not feel like eating alone).

We eat California grown articokes (with mayonaise)when they are in season and at a reasonable price. Have not had rubarb in decades. I will make cupcakes and pies (from scratch) once in a while (usually toss out the remaining 1/2 so hubby does not over-induldge).

I am use to fried potatos, fried green beans, southern fried chicken,(decent) mashed potatos, homemade biscuits and gravy made from the meat drippings (even chocolate gravy once in a blue moon). I gave up sugar in my coffee (flying from MI to CA in 1984) but do prefer whole milk (hate powdered creamers, unless they are flavored).

We do try to watch the foods we eat as hubby is diabetic and has high cholesterol (doctor says I am border-line on these two). Hubby has stayed the same weight (since I met him) but I have gained 100# (just since being with him). But this I attribute to being dormant around the house (so I cannot blame him, just myself on this issue).

Edited at 2009-05-14 04:23 pm (UTC)
archerpren
May. 14th, 2009 04:23 pm (UTC)
artichokes are my favorite food! and pomegranates! i love food that is interactive. also noone likes butter more than me...except maybe paula dean. noone can compeete with her butter love. i totally agree with everything you said there. i think its why you hardly ever see a fat french person. and talk abotu some fattening food there! but they eat what they want in little portions and they are satisfied cause its hella flavorfull. hahaha
platypus71
May. 14th, 2009 05:30 pm (UTC)
In less than 24 hours, this blog has joined Jezebel.com as the greatest time waste-I mean, enlightening conversation/keeping me awake during class activity. Huzzah!
eternalism
May. 14th, 2009 05:35 pm (UTC)
Excellent points, and you brought up some issues that I'd thought of before but never really thought too deeply about to discover the reasons why I thought about them. Kudos!

I think part of the binging when the permission to eat whatever you like happens is also part of the novelty factor. You spend a week eating bland but healthy foods, and suddenly the chance to eat something dripping with sugar comes your way. In a sense, eating something unhealthy has become a novelty in your new diet, something to be grasped and taken advantage of because it's new and different, and you people tend to overcompensate. When that "eat what you want day" becomes par for the course, people get less excited about it and don't bother with it quite so much. Combined with the thought that if they don't do it now the permission may be taken away from them (something I know all too well), this is a dangerous combination.

Myself, I'm fat. Too fat. Unhealthily so. And the primary reason I want to lose weight is to lessen the strain on my heart and my lungs, which already have a habit of making my life a living hell. Unlike a lot of people, though, I don't subscribe to fad diets or diets that involve me cutting out a whole range of foods. As a friend of mine said, I eat few enough vegetables as it is, so why should I try to cut out carrots and potatoes because they're "too starchy"? I'd just be cutting out some of the few veggies I actually like, and lowing the amount of vegetables I find myself willing to eat and enjoy. I eatmy food more slowly now and have learned to tell the signs of impending fullness, so that I don't overeat because I'm too busy shovelling food into myself so I can get the next taste and yet find myself missing it anyway. (Another vicious cycle of badness!) I'm making an effort to eat more fruits, if not vegetables, and to avoid high-fat foods where I can.

But much like you, if the low-fat or low-salt or low-whatever stuff tastes like ass, I'm going to skip it in favour of getting something that tastes better and might be a little less healthy for me. I don't want losing weight to be associated with some miserable unpleasant chore, or else I'm just going to turn to my old habits for comfort, and that includes eating a bunch of junk food and undoing the progress I've made.
swwoodsy
May. 14th, 2009 07:01 pm (UTC)
This is my problem, too. I am the fattest I have ever been (and no, really, I am fat. I could lose a whole person and still be a really healthy, if not downright fluffy, weight for my body size and type. So I know whereof I speak.). Having been conditioned from childhood that fat=bad, evil, and makes me a bad person, I have some body-image and self-esteem issues. Janeane Garofalo said in one of her stand up routines, "Because I am the fattest person alive and therefore unworthy of real love...." And I totally identified with that. Still kinda do. *sigh*

If it were a matter of willpower, I would be as skinny as my sister. But it's not. For me, it is not even a matter of eating healthily. I do have some eating habits I am changing (what does "full" instead of "stuffed" feel like, how slowly I eat, etc.). I don't really overindulge in things that are bad for me. But I have several metabolic snipers that just keep me pinned down and make it really, really hard for me to lose weight. Exercise? *shock-horror* That cuts into my embroidery time!

This body you see? This body is a hyper-efficient machine. The machine makes fat, but it's damn efficient, thankyouverymuch.

So give me the good stuff, because I will eat all the substandard crap and then still go get the good stuff because I am not satisfied.

And I agree with almost all of attack_laurel's post. The only thing I disagree with? Artichokes. I have TRIED to like them. Multiple times. I just don't. What can I say? I'm a Philistine. ;^D
mistressrhi
May. 14th, 2009 05:47 pm (UTC)
Yay parends! LOL! I use a ton of them too...

I haven't had sugar in any form in 134 days and you know what? I don't feel denied. I feel, look, sleep better and am generally quite happy with my new 96% non-prepared foods diet. But hey, that's just me, and I know it wouldn't be groovy for everybody.

Yesterday, I hit nirvana. Dinner was sauteed yellow squash, green beans, tomato slices, cucumber slices and radishes! WHEE! It's what I grew up on, and man, it hit every endorphin receptor in my brain... I didn't even need my sugar-free jello pudding afterwards.

But keep that nasty low-fat cheese away from me! Real cheese or else! No play-dough!
lostvirtue
May. 14th, 2009 05:49 pm (UTC)
Hmmmm, artichokes. I haven't made those in a long time.

One thing I'd like to add, being in a "dieting" state of mind lately is that I actually really ENJOY so called "healthy" foods aka fresh fruit/veggies. I actually ate an apple instead of a donut last week when out with my normal group for morning break and I was pretty happy with it. It just matters what my mind is willing to accept and enjoy and where my concentration is. (*I still plan on eating donuts on occasion)
hsifeng
May. 14th, 2009 05:52 pm (UTC)
"Sorry, I can't help myself - I write like I talk. This is why, if there is a joke or a funny story to be told, I let Bob tell it, because I either forget or get wrong the salient parts, and add in way too many asides...."

We are never allowed to sit in the same place and tell stories to each other. The tangents would be never-ending! *chuckle*

BTW - Thank you for this, I am a firm believer in ‘eat only what tastes good to you’. I am also a firm believe in *real* butter; I was raised with both the fresh stuff (right outta the cow even!) and the margarine my mother insisted on using when she stopped wanting to make her own butter. Real = better. Margarine = shite. I would tell you stories about the trouble I got into for eating the real stuff right out of the butter dish when I was young, but that would be a tangent…*chuckle*
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